why do usually we come back repeatedly to the mirror? Is as if the crystaline surface draw us. I always find myself studying my face in the mirror. I go to bedroom to pick up something and find myself in a sneak peek. Mirrors has its mystery. In fairy tales mirrors have a prominent place. they are even humanized with speech, gestures and powers.
We deplore Snow White's wicked stepmother, notwithstanding we have much of this character inside us. Not that we are cruel. We just want to make sure that our smile is still charming.
Surely we have a relationship with the mirror. But if he is friend or foe is hard to say. His mood is changing and he send diversified messages. Sometimes he tells us we are beautiful and sometimes we feel horrible face of wrinkles, skin imperfections and whitened hairs. We become disappointed, of course. We would like to save for ever soft skin, sensual lips, beautiful brown hair.
Primordial image of our face can unplease us. Somehow we try to make changes. We begin to stretch the skin with fingers and check the smile. We distract a few minutes in this make-believe and then lucidity warn us the pull-stretch play will not work.
Promisingly our face is not just one. A lot of views, moods, optimistic and pessimistic bias mix themselves in our face.
As the mirror is temperamental and face is changing we can take advantages of the swings. The best is hold up strongly these instants when the face says where and how wants to be improved. If the mirror says that we need a sexy lipstick or take care of our theet, do it immediately because things can change and he, grumpy to say that nothing more will work.
If the image speak to us we can accept the dialogue and give to the mirror opportunities for more productives suggestions.We can to make a grimace of disgust and the mirror will accept it because he needs our complicity.How are we going to answer? we have to think very well about this answer, choose the best way and also a lot of balance for not exaggerate as a misguided stepmother.
We must be carefully for not lost ourselves in the infinitude of the mirrors.
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